It’s six am I’ve done three loads of washing, emptied the dishwasher fed the cats and the geese put washing on the line lost my cup of tea twice
The September sun is shinning it’s a beautiful day.
I’m picking up my mother and father in law at nine taking them to hospital father in law is being admitted nothing serious.
You see I joke with my hubby I tell him he got me to come back to Wales under false pretenses.
He promised me a family a Mam and Dad .
That was fourteen years ago.
His mother is four foot f@@k all and scared the shit out of me.
No one was good enough for her boys. Typically Welsh mammy.
They should write mammy on the police cars in Wales there would be no trouble!
So back to my story some English woman was never going to cut it for Nancy’s boy.
I tried everything. But she was vile she was cutting critical so I left her to it.
Always encouraged my hubby to call.
Then nine months ago his father became I’ll and suddenly she changed!
She refares to me as her daughter. I was slightly scared wondering how long it would last.
But here we are.
The universe listens
So Nancy is alot older so am I .
But we are family
I’m taking Mam and Dad to hospital.
Saying something so simple makes me so happy.
Now where are my car keys 😊
Old Weathered Hands. I think its human nature when we lose someone we love our greatest fear is forgetting the simple things about them. The sound of their voice, their smell, precious memories. However in reality I’ve discovered as I have grown older I’ve remember more not less. Lizzie my Nan I remember her long thin silver hair. Gold heavy creole earrings weighing down her tiny earlobes, her faded blue apron my little Nanny. Little but loud, northern salt of the earth she always said it exactly as it was. Most of all I remember her smile. How she would pretend to be annoyed when I’d shout Nanny at the top of my voice through the letterbox at all hours of the day and night. Her house was my sanctuary the smell of furniture polish and hotpot. I’d watch her as I held up the flap of the letterbox as she hurried down the hall exclaiming ‘Jesus, Mary and bloody Joseph, I hear you calling in my bloody sleep! I’m changing my bloody name to Rumplestitskin! I remember her baking cheese onion and bacon pies on tin plates and egg custard tarts on a Sunday. She would send me to the outdoor at the flying horse pub with a empty jug to have filled with stout old tea towel to cover the jug. Id try to walk back without spilling it sneaking a mouthful as I walked. Our trips round to the shops she would carefully apply her tangerine lipstick and tie her checked hair scarf the we would call into the bookies for her each way bet then the butchers for bacon ribs and the paper shop for twenty John player specials. Bingo was on a Friday night down in the church hall park street in fingerpost Me and my cousins Gary and Phillip on one side of the table nan and her friend Lizzie Ducker on the other. She would give me a card to mark. ‘Nudge me if your sweating’.. she would say. I’d be terrified! Smokey church hall jesus on his cross watching the bingo. Womens eyes fixed on bingo tickets biros moving quickly scribbling out numbers. ‘House’! Someone would shout and there would be a sigh from everyone else. Walking home we would call in the chippy bag of salty chips in yesterday’s newspaper between us. Then home tired ready for bed my cousins in back bedroom, I would be snuggled up warm in Nanny’s bed beside her. The weight of old blankets and coats with silk lining to keep us warm. I still have a piece of that overcoat lining. Silhouette of leaded windows on the wall beside the bed reflected from the old street light on the peeling blue flowered wallpaper. Sometimes I’d go to bed before Nanny. Lying there listening in the dark whilst she stayed up late to sew on her old Jones treadle sewing machine. The sound of that treadle was magical as she worked to make me dresses it often lulled me to sleep. The simple things. Her old biscuit boxes one full of photos. The other full of buttons both full of stories. Stories of her family friends the man across the street who had got stuck in a tin bath. A big faded button from a coat she had worn that my grandfather had bought her she held it in her hand like a diamond eyes closed smile on her face transported back to him. Photos of child she had raised and loved as her own as well as her own three sons. Photos of my grandfather who I knew from her story telling not from memory as he’d died when I was too young to remember. She taught me many things my Nan, pastry making, sewing, names of plants herbs, that when I got nettled there would be a dock leaf to fix the sting not far from the nettle. To star gaze fortune tell and to always bide time never to act on temper. How to win at cards although I never managed to win her once. I remember combing her hair and sitting running my finger along the back of her brown weathered hand, tracing the blue veins of her old working hands grafters hands. As I sit her now holding my granddaughters hands looking at my own hand in hers it is brown weathered blue veins meander and they tell my story. Beautiful childen Tamika Tiger and Emilia Willow I wonder what your memories of me your Nanny will be? I hope you will remember my old weathered hands and how much you made me smile.